Selfless Love

Romans 15:1

“We who are strong ought to bear with the fallings of the weak and not to please ourselves.”

Hebrews 6:10 reminds us, “God is not unjust; he will not forget your work and the love you have shown him as you have helped his people and continue to help them.” Our God is faithful to His promises, rewarding those who are humble, who become weak to win the weak, who bear the burden, and who love selflessly. However, we as humans are deceiving as we do almost everything to benefit ourselves in one way or another. Especially when it comes to others, helping someone can sometimes quickly become a personal gain that we use to make ourselves seem superior to the one whom we are helping. However, we are called to love others the way in which Christ has loved us, selflessly. To love selflessly is to humble ourselves and love without gain, bearing the burden of another simply to encourage them in their battle and allow them to recognize that they are not alone. Life is difficult as it is and there is nothing more demeaning than reaching out to have someone help only for them to be recognized for what they did rather than placing the focus on what Christ overcame. I have most definitely had the struggle of wanting recognition from bearing the burden of someone in need. It is always satisfying to place myself on a pedestal after helping someone resolve an issue, but at the end of the day, it was never about me to begin with. The Lord has placed a deep calling on my life to help others and over time, I have learned to humble myself and love selflessly, coming to the understanding that not everything is about me. That sometimes I do indeed need to put myself aside because at what point did someone put themselves aside to help me? As we are poured into, we must pour into someone else. 

Application

This week, I will write "Selfless love" on my arm as a reminder to love selflessly when others are in need.